Don’t Ban All The Fraternities, Lower The Drinking Age

Sexual assault on campus is an epidemic. Estimates suggest that one in five young women will experience sexual assault while in college (and the statistics are worse for women of the same age who don’t attend college). Most of these crimes will go unreported for a variety of reasons: the victim is not “perfect,” there can be devastating social consequences to reporting that someone raped you, and on and on.

In response, the Department of Education’s Office of Civil Rights has clarified that universities have a responsibility to address sexual harassment and sexual assault as part of their obligations under Title IX, which bars sex discrimination in education. This development is strongly positive, although colleges and universities still tend to suck at implementing the requirements. (In the words of the youth-led activist group Know Your IX: “But aren’t colleges handling these reports terribly? Yup, they absolutely are. But so are the police.”)

Know Your IX is right; the best way forward is to require better enforcement so schools live up to their legal obligations. Public law enforcement involvement and response also carries wide room for improvement — although this is tricky, as bringing police in can make the situation worse for some victims, especially undocumented victims, victims of color, and those victims for whom their assailants bear continued control over their lives.

But legal strategy will only get us so far. We need cultural change as well. Some cultural change is directly traceable to activism: victims speaking out (brava!), students holding their institutions accountable (hooray!), and conversation-creators like the brave and creative Emma Sulkowicz, who commanded national attention for carrying a mattress throughout the Columbia University campus. Other cultural change will come with policy change.

One proposal increasingly floated to combat sexual assault on campus is to ban all the frats and shut them down. It makes perfect sense to close down fraternities that have been found to engage in overt racism or empower sexual assault. But shutting down every fraternity nationwide because we have proof that some are terrible is untenable. A better solution would be to defang fraternities as monarchies of rape culture. We need to take away the social gatekeeping power older men have over younger women on campus. We need to lower the drinking age.

College students are going to drink. We can get weird and moralistic about that, à la the disastrous reformers (including feminists) who brought us Prohibition, or we can accept that society as a whole benefits when unstoppable private behaviors and desires are permitted under the law.

The National Minimum Drinking Age Act of 1984 used the enticement of federal funding for state highway funds to drag states into raising the age for purchasing or publicly consuming alcohol to 21. Now many will recite for you the often-argued reasons why that’s offensive: 18 is the age of adulthood; you can vote at 18; you can enlist in the armed forces and fight and die for your country at 18, but you can’t have a drink at the bar at your homecoming party if you in fact survive. These reasons are right.

But less examined is the role that an arbitrary drinking age of 21 plays in creating destructive cultures on college campuses, particularly rape culture, and particularly for young women. Many college gatherings do involve alcohol. By granting less than half of a campus access to purchasing alcohol by virtue of their age, this situation empowers older men — including the small proportion of those older (and for that matter younger) men who are sexual predators — to control younger women’s access to social gatherings that include alcohol.

Fraternities have the power they do, by and large, because the many underage people, including underage women, who do drink must go to frat houses and other private settings to hang out. Now, one common objection raised by apologists for campus sexual assault (even if they see themselves in a very different light) is that young women should learn how to behave and be smarter about drinking. Until we are telling our young men with equal vigor that they must stop doing keg stands in order to be safe, I’m going to call that a sexist comment. Young women deserve to be human just as much as young men, without fear of getting raped. Even those young women who play drinking games before they turn 21.

If the drinking age were lowered to 18, all students would be able to go to the bar on a Friday night. This might take away some of the pressure some underage students feel to get really drunk (“pregame”) in their dorm rooms before going out for the evening. It would definitely take away this choice: Sit home and not go out and party, or go to a private house party controlled by older people you may not know who have bedrooms upstairs.

Rather than banning fraternities, this feminist argues that we should siphon away some of their power by lowering the drinking age.

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Comments

  1. I’m not sure I agree, but it’s an interesting possibility.

  2. Fantastic point. I’ve wanted the drinking age lowered for a long time for the initial set of reasons you mentioned, but this is another important reason.

  3. Interesting proposal. I spent part of my high school years in SouthEast Asia where there was no drinking age. Not advocating for kids to be able to drink alcohol but because it wasn’t illegal it wasn’t this forbidden pleasure so less reason to sneak it or overindulge in it.

  4. survivor says:

    I fully agree. I was raped in college at age 19, by an older guy who supplied the alcohol. I thought I was so cool at the time, drinking and hanging out with an older guy who could buy booze. It will be 12 years this August and I still don’t talk about it openly. I was drinking underage, I “let” it happen, etc etc. I don’t know if a lower drinking age would have helped me but then maybe I would have been drinking at a bar instead of a private residence. Maybe in a public place my friends would have been there to help me if things were getting out of control. Maybe if I hadn’t felt like I had committed a crime (drinking underage), it would have eliminated one aspect of the self-blame. Who knows, I probably still would have blamed myself for drinking but at least then it wouldn’t have been for something that was against the law. My family doesn’t know; only a few close friends do. I don’t want people to think differently of me or even feel sorry for me. I’m strong, and I am doing well. I agree with your comment that victims coming forward is helping to change our culture, and I wish I could be one of those victims. Maybe someday I will.

    • erintothemax says:

      Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry and angry to hear this happened to you, and I’m glad to hear you are strong and doing well. Thank you for making these powerful points here.

  5. As the mom of a 15-year-old (and a former teenager myself) I agree with you, Erin. I support lowering the drinking age AND the voting age!

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